Thursday, May 04, 2006

A Darker Shade of Gray

Do I feel like writing?

No, not particularly. But at the urging of various e-mails and comments....I'm here. A little dazed and out of focus...but here nonetheless.

I guess no one ever said that life was going to be easy but what they failed to mention was that it was going to be filled with bumps and bruises, stubbed toes, paper cuts, headaches, curse words and water retention. Not to mention sorry ex-boyfriends, worthless former friends, clinically insane neighbors and demonically possessed employees.

I guess it's just one of those minor details that parents forget to let us in on. Advice that should have been sandwiched in sometime between the "sex talk" and the "proper use of credit cards ."

28 Comments:

Blogger Valerie said...

awwwwwww, hugs for Linny!!!!!!! Come visit me. I'll make you not blue anymore. :D

5/04/2006 7:28 PM  
Blogger Princess Pessimism said...

OHHH we have "the proper use of credit card" talk in canada...we pay close attention. Everyone i know, over 20 has phenomenal credit!!

Sometimes, all the bumping along,scraped knees and tears teach us to be stronger, and not to let those little things hurt our feelings as much. We become immune to them, and realize that they build character, and teach us that whatever doesnt kill us, only makes us stronger.

Hang in there buddy...

5/04/2006 8:01 PM  
Blogger Miss Ash said...

I'd like to hear about the clinically insane neighbors :)

5/04/2006 8:37 PM  
Blogger Chuckles said...

Yeah, write about the crazy Snells that live in Snellsville.

5/04/2006 9:43 PM  
Blogger B said...

Oh Linny......I've felt the same way all week.

If you can do what I'm getting ready to do on Monday, I highly recommend it. And it's only one word.

Vacation.

5/04/2006 9:53 PM  
Blogger FU said...

ooo... dark...

well dark writing for linny.

i think this was your sexiest post yet.

:)

5/04/2006 10:06 PM  
Blogger mistyblue3 said...

I hope you start to feel better Linny! Something MUST be in the air. This has been an off week for everyone I know!

5/04/2006 10:38 PM  
Blogger Autumn Storm said...

Big apologies for the cliched: Weigh it up against all that is great :-)
Feel better, xo

5/05/2006 12:00 AM  
Blogger Dzeni said...

Thank goodness I'm not the only one whose had a "dodgy" week!!! Linny, at least you got the sex / credit card talk :) I love your description of your employees - classic.

5/05/2006 12:24 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I sure hope I don't fall in the "worthless former friends" category!!! I'm a dedicated reader and SOMEONE has not returned any of my emails. Look, I'm already getting defensive :) Guess who!

5/05/2006 7:38 AM  
Blogger Cari said...

The baby in the pic looks pissed!!

:}

I try to leave all that out too, I guess I am trying to shield Tyler from all that...

I know it's inevitable..

But if he can live for a time without knowing the insanity, maybe it will help him in the long run.

5/05/2006 8:35 AM  
Blogger Lindsey said...

Adarya?

I haven't received any emails that I haven't responded to. Which address did you send them too?

5/05/2006 8:47 AM  
Blogger berly02 said...

Perhaps the weekend will bring some much need relief from "life". {{hugs}}

5/05/2006 9:06 AM  
Blogger Drywall Mom said...

Most of the time I am optomistic about life. At this moment in my life I would just like to have a very large break from everything. I sometimes wish I was a kid again so everything was so easy. But, I love my life and I just wish that sometimes I could have a break from it. I just try to look at the little things that help keep me going to get me through the day. So try to remember the good things and sometimes it will wash out the annoyances of everyday life.

5/05/2006 11:48 AM  
Blogger Jennifer said...

I think you should bitch about the exs, neighbours and employees.

5/05/2006 12:44 PM  
Blogger Lindsey said...

At any rate...no Adarya...I was not referring to you.

5/05/2006 3:05 PM  
Blogger tsduff said...

Paper cuts and water retention... two of my favorite worst things! Parents couldn't possibly tell you about all of that stuff - and besides, even if they did we couldn't full appreciate them until we experienced each one for ourselves :-)

5/05/2006 5:48 PM  
Blogger DZER said...

I think I skipped the day when they taught all that crap at school ...

5/06/2006 12:56 AM  
Blogger SaffronSaris said...

Cheer up Linny! Or perhaps go away for a short break to unwind.

5/06/2006 5:12 AM  
Blogger Phil said...

What the heck is going on with you lately? Just keep writing. It's like driving at night without your headlights. You may crash a few times along the way, but eventually you'll find the road. Ok, I guesss you shouldn't write just because we want you to. Take care of yourself and write when it makes you happy.

5/06/2006 7:16 AM  
Blogger Lindsey said...

Phil...at this point it's not about not having anything to write.

It's that I'm having a shitty ass week and haven't felt like writing.
Hopefully things will be better soon. We'll see.

5/06/2006 9:13 AM  
Blogger Outdoorsy Girl said...

I do hope everything gets better soon.

I'm sort of in the same kind of place right now, so at least you're not alone!

5/06/2006 9:48 AM  
Blogger Agnes said...

Well Linny, I'm truly sorry for your bad week. One thing I'm certain of in this life is that everything turns on a dime when you least expect it. I'm going to hope that it turns positive for you. That happens too, you know.
Sometimes we win even when we think we were losing. (happened to me just last week - boring details)

So, rest assured that the givers of bad karma will get their own and you'll probably get to watch them get it.

You're right about the bumps and bruises, stubbed toes, paper cuts, headaches, curse words, water retention, sorry ex-boyfriends, worthless former friends, clinically insane neighbors and demonically possessed employees. You're right that it's not part of the growing up experience.
There's a perfect book to write. Better than any Judy Blume out there. Go write a book for preteens. Title it "Life's Gonna Suck." Then cash in on the all the evil schmucks. That'll show 'em.

(((((((((HUGS))))))))))))

5/06/2006 11:31 AM  
Blogger Buffy said...

Things always work out in the end. Really..they do.

5/06/2006 4:07 PM  
Blogger Courtney O. said...

On the upside, that is a priceless picture of Colby :)
Good stuff

5/06/2006 9:55 PM  
Blogger Joe Tornatore said...

parents have the last laugh.

5/07/2006 2:24 PM  
Blogger Josh said...

I just wished they would have told me the whole "young at heart" motto is a complete lie. Your body falls to pieces regaurdless of how damn chipper you are about it.

5/08/2006 4:04 AM  
Blogger Justine said...

Just squeeze that big luminous exercise ball until you feel better, Linny!

5/08/2006 4:14 AM  

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